So Sundays have taken on a new routine since i've joined the new gym & spa. Every Sunday evening i get down the spa for an hour or so to use the hydropool, help my legs recover from football and the working week. Now tonight, i was in there on my own for a change and in walks a woman who i'd been on a few dates with her mother & sister, great. Now i'm a friendly person, i will always smile, say hello, make small talk, you know the usual things you do, especially when a situation could get awkward for someone, turns out she didn't want to do the same thing. I was stood in the hydropool, doing my own thing and she she's me and completely ignores more, yeah, thanks for that. So for the next 30 mins of doing my own thing i feel about two inches tall & my relaxing spa has turned into me leaving the place feeling really stupid, angry and upset.
So the story goes with said woman that she was moving to Australia with her family & had 6 weeks left, now we'd been talking for a while and i said "Lets just give it a go. I mean it's better to have 6 weeks of something than 6 weeks of nothing" So we go on a date, have a great time & have our second date the following night. The second date goes well, then we chat & it turns out she's staying, now this is good news i think as she'd been saying stuff like "Why do i meet someone as good as you just as i move to the other side of the world" so i think i'm allowed to assume things are looking up, she then goes quiet as her family are having problems since they cancelled the move, i tell her "It's understandable & if i can help, let me know". A week goes by, still quiet so i text, see how everything is "Yeah, not too bad thanks, just sorting some stuff out", the following day i get a text message saying "Guess who's POF account i've just found?" Now this is where it gets interesting, said girl had already stated on the first date she didn't have an online dating account, so basically since she found out she was staying i'm suddenly not good enough for her. I'm pretty sure people can understand why i'm pissed off, i feel pathetic, like i'm not good enough to be someones boyfriend. All she had to do was let me know, say she's not interested but to say you're interested & then create an online dating account is complete and utter bollocks.
All i'm saying is why can't people for once take into consideration the consequences of their actions, think about how they would like it if they were on the receiving end of this treatment.
Anyway until 7pm this evening i was good, had a great weekend and already looking forward to next weekend in Southampton
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